WHY YOU WILL NEVER SAY “I HAVE ENOUGH”
- Madhukar Dama
- May 29
- 5 min read
Because what you’re chasing is imaginary — and the body has no satiety feedback for illusions.

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🧠 1. NATURAL SATIETY EXISTS ONLY FOR REAL, BIOLOGICAL NEEDS
Your body is designed to give clear start and stop signals for real, physical needs:
Real Need — Trigger — Satiety Signal
Hunger — Empty stomach — Fullness, satisfaction
Thirst — Dry mouth — Moisture, quenched
Sleep — Fatigue — Refreshed waking
Cold — Low temperature — Warmth, comfort
Heat — Sweating — Coolness, relief
Social need — Loneliness — Presence, belonging
But for artificially constructed needs, there is no built-in “enough” signal.
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🚫 2. IMAGINARY NEEDS HAVE NO SATIETY POINT
These include:
Money – How much is “enough”?
Power – Does anyone retire from control?
Fame – Does anyone feel fully seen?
Status – Can one ever stop comparing?
Beauty – When is the face finally good enough?
Success – What is the final level?
Validation – How many likes are “enough”?
Gold, land, titles – What is the finish line?
Why?
Because these are imaginary currencies, created by:
Society (to measure you)
Economy (to trap you)
Institutions (to control you)
Your body doesn’t recognize them as needs — so no satiety kicks in.
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🔁 3. THE MORE YOU SEEK, THE LESS YOU FEEL
Unlike real needs (which calm down when met), these imaginary ones agitate more when fed.
You Chase… — You Get… — But You Feel…
Followers — More attention — More insecurity
Promotions — More money — More pressure
Beauty — More products — More self-hate
Property — More land — More fear of loss
Success — Awards, praise — Deeper hollowness
> Real needs end. Imaginary needs expand.
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💸 4. MONEY, GOLD, PROPERTY — NO ENDPOINT
Money: A man with ₹1 crore wants ₹2 crores. A man with ₹100 crores wants ₹200. Ask them. They’ll say “I don’t feel secure yet.”
Gold: Why do the rich keep buying it? To feel rich enough? They already are. But there is no feedback mechanism — only fear of losing.
Property: No one buys “just one.” They want 2 houses, then 5, then land, then a farmhouse.
The poor dream of a 2BHK. The rich dream of cities.
It never ends because there is no internal "stop" signal.
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💼 5. POWER AND CONTROL ARE BOTTOMLESS ADDICTIONS
CEOs don’t stop after one company.
Politicians don’t quit after one term.
Even local leaders keep contesting elections till death.
Power isn’t addictive because it’s joyful — it’s addictive because it feeds insecurity.
Just like sugar feeds parasites, power feeds the fear of being powerless.
And that fear has no limit.
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👩🎤 6. FAME IS THE HUNGER THAT GROWS WHEN FED
A singer becomes famous. But then wants to stay relevant.
A spiritual guru becomes a brand. Now must maintain public image.
An actor gets millions of followers. Now fears cancellation.
You never arrive.
You just move the bar forward.
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📱 7. DIGITAL VALIDATION MAKES YOU STARVE FOR IMAGINARY FOOD
“How many people liked my post?”
“Did they see my story?”
“Am I trending?”
There is no natural satiety for digital attention.
You’re not actually being “seen.”
So the hunger restarts every morning.
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🧬 8. ARTIFICIAL DESIRES HIJACK YOUR BIOLOGY
Examples:
Makeup tricks you into thinking beauty needs work.
Gym bodies trick you into feeling inadequate.
Real estate ads make your current house feel too small.
News & media remind you that you’re behind.
You are flooded with illusions of what you lack — and never given a chance to feel full.
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🧠 9. NO "ENOUGH" SIGNAL FOR COMPARISON-BASED LIVING
Real needs are independent.
Imaginary needs are comparative.
You’re not just eating — you’re eating more than him.
You’re not just earning — you want more than them.
You're not just safe — you want a safer place than others.
And because comparison is endless, the need to “have more” is also endless.
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🚪 10. THE EXIT IS NOT ADDITION. IT’S SUBTRACTION.
You will never say “I have enough” if you keep adding.
You will only feel it when you subtract:
Subtract needs.
Subtract comparisons.
Subtract imaginary benchmarks.
Subtract the belief that someone else’s life is better.
That’s when satiety reactivates — because you return to real life.
To real food. Real people. Real moments. Real limits.
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🔚 FINAL TRUTH
You were made to feel full after food, rest after sleep, peace after warmth.
But you were reprogrammed to:
Buy endless gold
Accumulate infinite digital followers
Earn until you die
Hoard property you’ll never live in
Look younger every year
And chase what cannot be eaten, touched, or slept in
That’s why you never say “I have enough.”
Because what you seek isn’t real.
And only the real has an end.
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YOU NEVER ARRIVE, BROTHER
you were born
with a body that knew
when to stop eating,
when to sleep,
when to shit.
but they took you,
cleaned you up,
cut your hair,
pushed you into a classroom
with fifty others
and taught you how to forget that knowing.
they showed you the photos
of people who had
more
and told you to become
like them.
not yourself.
never yourself.
they put a mark sheet in your hand
and said
“this is your worth.”
they whispered
“this will make you rich.”
they laughed
when you asked
“how much is enough?”
now you're
32,
working in a Bengaluru tech park
with 14 open browser tabs
and a salary that dies before the month ends.
you order Swiggy
and stare at your phone
because chewing hurts more than scrolling.
your father
still tells you
you must buy a flat,
“own land, son, or you’re a nobody.”
he has 3 plots
and still doesn’t sleep.
your mother
prays to ten gods
and still fears the neighbour
who wears more gold.
you married
because the relatives asked,
and now your wife wants
a bigger car,
a better fridge,
a fancier school
for the child
who just wants you to come home early.
you keep chasing.
chasing more
of what never fed you
in the first place.
you tell yourself
“it’s for the future.”
but the future never came
for the man in the cubicle beside you
who died on a Thursday
before the loan cleared.
you stare at ads
for shoes you don’t need
on feet that never walked barefoot
on real ground.
you save for vacations
you’ll forget in three days.
you fear falling behind
but you don’t know
who’s ahead.
you don’t feel the wind,
but you chase the AC.
you don’t feel your breath,
but you check your smart watch.
you have an app
for peace of mind.
and another
for your mental breakdown.
you think you're smart
because you read the news,
but you don't know the name
of the farmer who grew your rice.
you eat rice
polished like your resume
and just as empty.
you pray to gods
you don’t trust,
vote for leaders
you don’t believe in,
and work for companies
that wouldn't attend your funeral.
you say
“I’m doing it for my family”
but your family only sees
your back
as you leave at 8am
and return at 9
with dead eyes
and one-word answers.
you worship money
but it doesn’t recognize you.
you think you are free
because you have options
but none of them are
“rest.”
none of them are
“enough.”
you buy comfort
but you can’t feel comfort.
you buy security
but you sleep with fear.
you go to therapy
but you don't weep.
you take pills
but you don't rest.
you meditate
but you don’t listen.
you look in the mirror
and see a face
built by expectations,
not truth.
your real face
was left behind
somewhere in a village,
barefoot,
laughing,
eating mangoes
with dirty hands
and no bank balance.
you think you’re educated
but you’ve never learned
how to stop.
you were born
with the ability to say
“I am full.”
but the world trained you
to keep eating
empty things
forever.
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