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𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄 𝐂𝐀𝐍𝐂𝐄𝐑 — 𝐇𝐄𝐑𝐄 𝐈𝐒 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐏𝐑𝐎𝐎𝐅

  • Writer: Madhukar Dama
    Madhukar Dama
  • 10 hours ago
  • 13 min read
You say you fear cancer, but every day you do things that welcome it — you eat processed food, fry in refined oil, store leftovers in plastic, sit all day, avoid sunlight, and live in stress. You know these acts cause disease, yet you continue because they are convenient, familiar, and comforting. You call it modern living, but it’s slow suicide disguised as routine. You don’t just risk cancer — you prepare for it, you defend it, you fund it, and you repeat it daily. You don’t fear cancer; you love it — because it allows you to stay the way you are.
You say you fear cancer, but every day you do things that welcome it — you eat processed food, fry in refined oil, store leftovers in plastic, sit all day, avoid sunlight, and live in stress. You know these acts cause disease, yet you continue because they are convenient, familiar, and comforting. You call it modern living, but it’s slow suicide disguised as routine. You don’t just risk cancer — you prepare for it, you defend it, you fund it, and you repeat it daily. You don’t fear cancer; you love it — because it allows you to stay the way you are.

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𝐈. 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐀𝐋𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐃𝐘 𝐊𝐍𝐎𝐖


You already know what causes cancer.

You’ve read it. You’ve heard it. You’ve seen people die from it.

And yet, you continue to do the same things every single day.

That means only one thing — you love cancer.



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𝐈𝐈. 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐁𝐄𝐆𝐈𝐍 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐃𝐀𝐘 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇 𝐒𝐓𝐑𝐄𝐒𝐒


You wake up and reach for your phone.

You start your day with anxiety, blue light, and no sunlight.

You skip water, skip breathing fresh air, and fill your mind with work, news, or messages.

You know stress lowers immunity.

You know disturbed sleep and screen exposure increase cancer risk.

Yet you repeat it every morning.

You do this knowingly — so it’s not ignorance anymore, it’s habit by choice.



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𝐈𝐈𝐈. 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐄𝐀𝐓 𝐋𝐈𝐊𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐃𝐎𝐍’𝐓 𝐂𝐀𝐑𝐄


You eat sugar even after knowing it feeds cancer cells.

You fry food in refined oil even after knowing it creates free radicals.

You drink milk and dairy even after knowing they are loaded with hormones and antibiotics.

You microwave leftovers, reheat oils, and eat stale food from the fridge — knowing all this releases toxic compounds.


You’ve seen people around you fall sick from these same things.

Yet you continue because you “like the taste.”

That’s love.

That’s the slow love story between you and cancer.



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𝐈𝐕. 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐁𝐔𝐘 𝐂𝐀𝐍𝐂𝐄𝐑


Every day, you buy it in bottles, packets, and tubes.

Perfumes, deodorants, shampoos, floor cleaners, detergents — all filled with carcinogenic chemicals you can’t even pronounce.

You spray them on your body, clothes, and home.

You smell “fresh” but breathe poison.


You know these contain parabens, formaldehyde, and synthetic fragrances.

You still prefer them because they’re convenient and smell good.

That’s not accident — that’s attachment.


You’re emotionally attached to the smell of cancer.



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𝐕. 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐂𝐇𝐎𝐎𝐒𝐄 𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐓 𝐎𝐕𝐄𝐑 𝐇𝐄𝐀𝐋𝐓𝐇


You sit for hours, day after day.

You rarely walk. You avoid sweating.

You use elevators instead of stairs.

You stay in air-conditioned rooms instead of sunlight.


You know inactivity and lack of sunlight are direct cancer risks.

You’ve read that vitamin D deficiency, obesity, and chronic inflammation all promote cancer.

Still, you stay glued to your chair and call that “work.”


You’re not forced to live this way — you’ve chosen it.



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𝐕𝐈. 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐅𝐄𝐀𝐑 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐒𝐈𝐌𝐏𝐋𝐄 𝐂𝐔𝐑𝐄


You know what can prevent cancer —

fresh air, real food, proper sleep, sunlight, clean bowel, sweat, and calm mind.

But you find these boring.

You find them difficult.


You’ll spend 10,000 rupees on supplements but won’t fast for one day.

You’ll take protein powders and gym memberships but won’t walk barefoot in the sun.

You’ll trust packaged health products but not your body’s natural healing capacity.


You avoid nature and simplicity because they expose your addiction to convenience.



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𝐕𝐈𝐈. 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐊𝐍𝐎𝐖 𝐖𝐇𝐄𝐑𝐄 𝐈𝐓 𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐄𝐒 𝐅𝐑𝐎𝐌


You know processed food, alcohol, smoking, plastics, sleep deprivation, and constant stress cause cancer.

You know deodorants, whitening creams, and fairness lotions contain carcinogens.

You know reusing plastic bottles, heating in plastic containers, and cooking in non-stick pans release toxins.


Yet you do them daily.

You keep your fridge full of stale food and plastic boxes.

You use packaged juices instead of real fruits.

You call it modern living.


You’re not living — you’re feeding cancer through every modern habit.



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𝐕𝐈𝐈𝐈. 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐃𝐎𝐍’𝐓 𝐋𝐄𝐀𝐑𝐍 𝐅𝐑𝐎𝐌 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐃𝐄𝐀𝐃


You’ve seen people around you die of cancer.

You saw them suffer through chemo, radiation, hospitals, pain, and fear.

You said “how unlucky.”

Then you went home and continued the same habits.


You didn’t learn.

That means you didn’t want to.

You’re emotionally loyal to your habits — even when they kill others and will kill you too.


That’s love.

Blind love.



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𝐈𝐗. 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐂𝐀𝐋𝐋 𝐈𝐓 𝐅𝐀𝐓𝐄


When it finally comes — when your body starts breaking down —

you’ll say, “It’s in my genes,” or “It’s God’s will,” or “It just happened.”

You’ll never say, “I earned this.”

But the truth is simple — you built it day by day, meal by meal, breath by breath.


You can’t call it bad luck if you’ve spent 20 years preparing for it.



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𝐗. 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐀𝐑𝐄 𝐍𝐎𝐓 𝐓𝐑𝐈𝐂𝐊𝐄𝐃 — 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐀𝐑𝐄 𝐓𝐑𝐀𝐈𝐍𝐄𝐃


You were trained to live like this —

to treat food as entertainment, rest as laziness, chemicals as hygiene, and pills as health.

You’ve normalised living in a constant state of toxicity.


But training doesn’t erase choice.

You still choose every day.

You still pick what to buy, what to eat, and how to live.

That means the responsibility is still yours.



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𝐗𝐈. 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐌𝐈𝐒𝐒𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐋𝐀𝐘𝐄𝐑𝐒 — 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐃𝐎𝐍’𝐓 𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐍𝐄𝐂𝐓 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐋𝐈𝐍𝐄𝐒


You think small acts don’t matter.

You think one cup of tea, one packet of chips, one late night, one deodorant use, one missed walk — don’t add up.

But they do.

Cancer doesn’t start in a day — it builds silently through thousands of small approvals you give it.


Every time you say, “It’s okay, just once,”

you’re allowing another layer of damage.

You are the one signing the permission slip.



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𝐗𝐈𝐈. 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐂𝐋𝐔𝐒𝐈𝐎𝐍


You’re not unlucky.

You’re not a victim.

You’re a daily participant in your own destruction.


You know exactly which acts cause cancer —

and you continue doing them.


So let’s stop pretending.

You don’t fear cancer.

You 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐡 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐢𝐭 — because you love the lifestyle that causes it.


Cancer is not your punishment.

It’s your reflection.



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𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐅𝐀𝐋𝐋 𝐎𝐔𝐓 𝐎𝐅 𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇 𝐂𝐀𝐍𝐂𝐄𝐑


Stop eating milk, maida, sugar, and refined oil.


Avoid pills for every discomfort.


Minimise white rice and wheat; eat jowar, ragi, millets.


Eat only fresh, local, and seasonal food.


Move daily — walk, stretch, play, sweat under the sun.


Use buttermilk daily.


Don’t store food in the refrigerator.


Eat only when hungry, eat dinner early.


Fast on Ekadashi.


Do a castor oil bath on Amavasya and Purnima.


End your day with Mother Simarouba Kashaya.



Then you’ll stop living like cancer’s lover

and start living like life’s guardian.



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𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄 𝐂𝐀𝐍𝐂𝐄𝐑 — 𝐀 𝐃𝐈𝐀𝐋𝐎𝐆𝐔𝐄 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇 𝐃𝐑. 𝐌𝐀𝐃𝐇𝐔𝐊𝐀𝐑 𝐃𝐀𝐌𝐀



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It was just after sunrise.

Mist hung low over the fields.

Dr. Madhukar Dama sat under the neem tree near the bamboo gate, waiting as the day began with bird calls.


Adhya, 14, and Anju, 10, opened the gate as the visitors arrived one by one — a mix of city, village, and in-between lives.

Each was offered a small cup of Mother Simarouba Kashaya, dark, bitter, earthy.


They sat on the ground in a half-circle.



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𝐏𝐀𝐑𝐓 𝐎𝐍𝐄 — 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐓 𝐎𝐅 𝐈𝐆𝐍𝐎𝐑𝐀𝐍𝐂𝐄


Ramesh (40, office worker):

“I know my lifestyle isn’t healthy. I sit for hours, skip breakfast, eat lunch late, and drink tea ten times a day. But I can’t help it — I have deadlines.”


Dr. Madhukar:

“You know what prolonged sitting does?”


Ramesh nods. “Yes — back pain, obesity…”


Dr. Madhukar:

“And cancer.

When you sit for long hours, blood flow slows down. Your insulin spikes stay high. Cells live in low oxygen and high sugar. That’s the same condition in which cancer thrives. You know this — yet you continue. Why?”


Ramesh looks down. “Because work won’t allow me otherwise.”


Dr. Madhukar:

“Work didn’t give you cancer. Your choices did. You choose to obey convenience more than your body.”



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Meera (35, health-conscious homemaker):

“I eat healthy, Doctor. I use olive oil, almond milk, protein bars, and organic products.”


Dr. Madhukar:

“You use deodorant?”


“Yes.”


“Cook in non-stick pans?”


“Yes.”


“Store food in plastic?”


“Yes.”


“You inhale cancer, cook in cancer, and store it in your fridge — all while saying you eat healthy. You’re aware of the risks, right?”


She nods, softly.


Dr. Madhukar:

“Then this is not ignorance. This is affection. You don’t fear cancer — you are emotionally attached to the lifestyle that causes it.”



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𝐏𝐀𝐑𝐓 𝐓𝐖𝐎 — 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐌𝐄𝐃𝐈𝐂𝐀𝐋 𝐌𝐈𝐑𝐑𝐎𝐑


Dr. Shankar (45, oncologist):

“I treat cancer every day. I tell patients to eat clean and avoid stress. But yes, I barely sleep, drink four coffees daily, and eat whatever’s available.”


Dr. Madhukar:

“You see the suffering directly. Why do you continue?”


He exhales. “We’re overworked. Hospitals run on adrenaline.”


Dr. Madhukar:

“Then the system also loves cancer — it feeds on it.

You know better than anyone how much of it is created, not born. Yet you behave as if your mind and body are separate. You heal others but willingly damage yourself. That’s the modern contradiction — knowledge without obedience.”


Dr. Shankar stays silent.



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𝐏𝐀𝐑𝐓 𝐓𝐇𝐑𝐄𝐄 — 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐍𝐎𝐑𝐌𝐀𝐋𝐈𝐒𝐄𝐃 𝐄𝐋𝐃𝐄𝐑


Raghav (65, retired teacher):

“All diseases come after fifty. That’s normal. My father had diabetes, my brother had cancer. It runs in our family.”


Dr. Madhukar:

“Do you mean it runs in your genes or in your kitchen?”


Raghav laughs uneasily. “Maybe both.”


Dr. Madhukar:

“You all grew up drinking milk every day, eating white rice, and sitting after meals. You used sugar and fried snacks as daily reward. That’s not heredity — that’s habit passed as heritage. You didn’t inherit disease; you inherited indulgence.”


Raghav’s eyes soften. “We thought it was good living.”


Dr. Madhukar:

“Every comfort that disconnected you from nature was sold to you as good living. That’s how love for cancer was cultivated — slowly, over generations.”



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𝐏𝐀𝐑𝐓 𝐅𝐎𝐔𝐑 — 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐃𝐄𝐍𝐈𝐀𝐋 𝐎𝐅 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐓𝐇


Aarav (22, student):

“I know chips and cola aren’t healthy, but we’re young. We can handle it now.”


Dr. Madhukar:

“Handle what? Your body is your only handling system.

When you drink cola, eat packaged food, and sit for hours on your phone, your cells adapt to survive that abuse. Cancer is that adaptation — cells learning to live in poison because you refuse to stop feeding it.”


Aarav fidgets. “So even at my age—?”


Dr. Madhukar:

“Cancer doesn’t check age. It checks environment. You’re making it comfortable early.”



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𝐏𝐀𝐑𝐓 𝐅𝐈𝐕𝐄 — 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐕𝐈𝐋𝐋𝐀𝐆𝐄 𝐕𝐎𝐈𝐂𝐄


Basavaraj (55, farmer):

“I walk, eat what we grow, and sleep after sunset. But whenever I go to the city, everything feels upside down. People buy vegetables like they buy clothes. They eat out of packets. How can they live like that?”


Dr. Madhukar:

“They call it progress.

But what you see is the result of people believing comfort equals intelligence. The more disconnected they become, the more they call it ‘development’. They trade simplicity for sickness — and call the sickness modern.”


Basavaraj nods slowly. “They work hard to fall ill.”


“Exactly,” Madhukar replies, quietly.



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𝐏𝐀𝐑𝐓 𝐒𝐈𝐗 — 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐒𝐔𝐑𝐕𝐈𝐕𝐎𝐑


Leela (50, cancer survivor):

“I had breast cancer five years ago. After surgery and chemo, I began living differently — stopped milk, sugar, and refined oil. I started walking, sweating, and eating real food. I haven’t fallen sick since.”


Dr. Madhukar:

“You stopped loving what caused it.

That’s why you recovered. Cancer doesn’t punish — it teaches. It asks one question: do you still want to continue living the same way?”


Leela looks around. “Most people do.”


Dr. Madhukar:

“Yes. They love their disease because it justifies their habits. It gives reason to their laziness, excuse to their indulgence, and sympathy for their suffering.”



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𝐏𝐀𝐑𝐓 𝐒𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐍 — 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐅𝐄𝐒𝐒𝐈𝐎𝐍


Silence falls.

Adhya refills cups with the bitter Kashaya.

Anju brings pieces of jaggery for the guests to bite after it.


The wind rustles the neem leaves.


Dr. Madhukar (slowly):

“You all know. You know which food is poison. You know the air you breathe indoors is stale. You know plastic, sugar, and late nights kill.

And yet, you continue.


That means you are not victims.

You are participants.


You don’t fear cancer — you expect it, you plan for it, you even insure it.

It’s no longer an accident. It’s an accepted outcome of a chosen lifestyle.”


No one speaks.



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𝐏𝐀𝐑𝐓 𝐄𝐈𝐆𝐇𝐓 — 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐃𝐈𝐑𝐄𝐂𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍 𝐁𝐀𝐂𝐊 𝐓𝐎 𝐋𝐈𝐅𝐄


Dr. Madhukar (continuing):

“You can fall out of love with cancer only through practice — not by talk, not by guilt, not by fear.


Start with small obedience to nature:


Stop eating milk, maida, sugar, and refined oil.


Avoid pills for every pain.


Minimise white rice and wheat.


Eat jowar, ragi, millets, seasonal fruits, and vegetables.


Stay active daily — walk, play, or do yoga under the sun.


Eat only when hungry and eat dinner early.


Fast on Ekadashi.


Use fermented foods like buttermilk.


Avoid the refrigerator — eat fresh.


Do a full-body castor oil bath on Amavasya and Purnima.


End your day with Mother Simarouba Kashaya.”



He pauses, looking at each face.


Dr. Madhukar:

“If you can’t do even this, then stop pretending you fear cancer.

You’re still in love with it.”



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𝐂𝐋𝐎𝐒𝐈𝐍𝐆


The group sits quietly.

The neem leaves keep moving in the morning light.

A faint smell of earth, herbs, and firewood fills the air.


Before leaving, Savitri comes from the kitchen with baskets of ridge gourds, guavas, and lemons — gifts from the garden.

She smiles gently.

“Take these home,” she says. “They keep you away from hospitals.”


No one replies.

They just bow slightly — each carrying the weight of a truth they already knew but had never said aloud.




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𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄 𝐂𝐀𝐍𝐂𝐄𝐑 — 𝐀 𝐏𝐎𝐄𝐌 𝐅𝐎𝐑 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐖𝐄𝐋𝐋-𝐀𝐃𝐉𝐔𝐒𝐓𝐄𝐃 𝐈𝐍𝐃𝐈𝐀𝐍

(by Dr. Madhukar Dama)



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You don’t want cancer, you say.

But you wake up every morning and live like someone who’s applying for it.


You start with a phone in your hand, not sunlight on your face.

You scroll, you sip reheated tea, you read about someone else’s success and feel smaller —

you already know this weakens your mind,

but you call it a “routine.”


You sit to eat, but not to chew.

You don’t taste anything anymore,

you just swallow things that come in packets,

because “there’s no time.”

You know these are dead foods —

refined, bleached, preserved, fried, and reused —

but you like the comfort.

It saves you the effort of care.


You tell your children not to eat junk while you eat the same behind their back.

You laugh about it.

That’s not humour. That’s hypocrisy turned normal.


You love air conditioning in every season.

You love staying indoors even on a bright day.

You say the sun is harsh.

You have turned away from the very thing that keeps you alive.


Your refrigerator is your god.

You worship it three times a day.

It stores your leftovers, your excuses, and your fear of freshness.

You don’t see how it kills your food —

you just call it “convenient.”


You fill your home with creams, perfumes, and floor cleaners

that your nose loves and your body hates.

You know they cause headaches, rashes, breathing trouble —

but they make your house smell “nice.”

So you spray poison proudly.


You know stress leads to disease.

But you seek stress.

You wear it like a badge of honour.

You don’t rest without guilt.

You can’t sit quietly for five minutes without reaching for noise.


You are scared of silence —

because in silence you’d hear the body asking questions

you have no courage to answer.


You treat the body like a servant —

feed it when it screams, drug it when it protests,

and keep it working through exhaustion.

You call that strength.

It’s not strength — it’s self-destruction on auto mode.


You buy gym memberships to burn what you overate.

You drink juices labelled “detox” from plastic bottles.

You swallow vitamins because you destroyed nutrition in the kitchen.

You call this self-care.


You insure your life before you live it.

You save for hospital bills before you save for health.

You fear disease, yet invest in it every day.

That’s not irony — that’s the national lifestyle.


You go to weddings and eat until your body begs you to stop.

You drink because “it’s a celebration.”

You drive home late, sleep late, wake up tired —

and blame “the system.”


You are the system.


You are the reason your fruits don’t smell like fruits anymore,

your soil doesn’t feel like soil,

your mind doesn’t stay still.

You built this cancer economy brick by brick —

with your purchases, your preferences, your pride.


You think cancer happens to “unlucky” people.

But you’ve been lucky every day it hasn’t shown up yet.

You’ve been spared, not saved.


You know the cause.

You just don’t want to let go of the comfort.

Because you like the taste of poison —

mild, sweet, familiar.

You’ve adjusted to it so well that health feels foreign.


You fear the bitter — the neem, the castor oil, the Simarouba Kashaya.

You call them “too strong.”

But your body was made for strong, not for soft.


You sit in front of a screen for hours,

and think walking to the balcony is “exercise.”

You think taking the stairs once a week “balances it.”

You want recovery without effort,

healing without change,

freedom without discipline.


You say, “Everyone dies of something.”

That’s not acceptance — that’s surrender before the fight begins.


You want your food delivered hot,

your life delivered easy,

and your death delivered late.

But all three come together —

fast, hot, and easy.


You love your disease because it lets you continue your habits.

Without it, you’d have to confront yourself.

With it, you have an excuse.


You think you can’t live without milk,

but you’ve forgotten how many generations lived without your brands.

You think you can’t give up sugar,

but you don’t see that sugar gave up on you first.


You don’t want to learn from those who’ve reversed their disease.

You want shortcuts, not change.

You want a painless cure for a painful pattern.


You want to talk about “awareness.”

But awareness without action is entertainment.


You’ll attend a cancer awareness walk,

wear a pink ribbon,

take a selfie,

and go home to a dinner fried in the same refined oil that built the disease.


You don’t need lectures.

You need honesty.

The truth is, you love what kills you.

You’ve made peace with poison because it lets you stay lazy.


You don’t eat food — you eat brands.

You don’t drink water — you drink packaged reassurance.

You don’t live — you maintain yourself between two diseases.


Cancer is not your enemy.

It’s your mirror.

It looks like you, lives like you, eats like you, breathes like you.

It’s just your body giving shape to your habits.


You can change it — but you won’t.

Not until the pain becomes greater than your comfort.

Not until someone you love suffers.

Not until the doctor says, “It’s stage three.”

That’s when people start talking about God.

But it’s too late then —

you’ve already lived the prayer backward.


You’ll call it fate,

but fate was written by your hand —

in every bite, every purchase, every ignored warning.


Cancer doesn’t come from outside.

It grows inside the house you built.

And you —

you love that house too much to clean it.



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You can stop it today.

Not by medicine, not by luck,

but by courage —

to face what you’ve normalized.


You’ll have to:


Stop worshipping sugar.


Stop trusting packaging more than soil.


Stop killing freshness in the name of convenience.


Stop sitting all day and calling it work.


Stop running from sunlight.


Stop fearing bitter truth.



Because health isn’t hidden.

It’s right there —

in the same simplicity you’ve called “old-fashioned.”



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You say you hate cancer.

But you don’t.

You hate only its consequences.

You love everything that builds it.


So be honest —

you don’t fear cancer.

You wish for it —

slowly, daily, with every bite, every click, every choice.


And when it comes,

don’t ask why.

Ask when you started loving it.




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