WHY GIRLS ARE GETTING EARLY PUBERTY — AND WHAT YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT
- Madhukar Dama
- May 24
- 5 min read

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1. INTRODUCTION: A NEW REALITY
Across Indian cities and even towns, girls are getting their periods earlier than ever before — often by age 8 or 9. Breasts develop early. Mood changes come sooner. Childhood is shortening. This early onset of puberty is not random. It is a response — to food, lifestyle, environment, and emotional stress. And it is not harmless.
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2. WHAT IS EARLY PUBERTY?
Medically, puberty before age 8 in girls is considered precocious. But even if it begins at 9 or 10, the emotional, social, and physical systems may not be ready. Early puberty increases the risk of:
Hormonal imbalances
Early sexualisation and psychological confusion
Risk of PCOS and obesity
Anxiety, depression, and poor body image
Shortened final height
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3. WHY IT’S HAPPENING — IN THE INDIAN CONTEXT
A. Junk food and fake nutrition
Biscuits, noodles, chocolates, processed snacks are full of chemicals that disrupt hormones.
Low fiber, high sugar diets alter gut microbiota and insulin levels, both linked to early puberty.
B. Plastic exposure (Endocrine Disruptors)
Food stored in plastic, microwaved in plastic, water bottles, toys, lunchboxes — all leach BPA and phthalates that mimic estrogen in the body.
C. Lack of sunlight and movement
Urban girls spend more time indoors, leading to Vitamin D deficiency, which is linked to early puberty.
Physical inactivity increases body fat, which produces extra estrogen.
D. Sedentary screen-heavy lifestyle
Screen exposure affects melatonin levels, disturbing sleep and hormonal rhythms.
E. Emotional stress and parental pressure
A stressful environment at home, school pressure, early exposure to adult content, and emotional neglect push the body into early maturity.
F. Animal hormones in food
Non-organic dairy, poultry, and meat in India may contain hormone residues that trigger early changes.
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4. WHAT YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT
A. FOOD REVERSAL
Eliminate junk, sugary drinks, flavored milk, ready-to-eat snacks.
Eat traditional, seasonal, high-fiber meals with millets, fresh vegetables, lentils.
Use cold-pressed oils and rock salt.
Avoid packed, plastic-wrapped foods.
B. DETOX PLASTICS FROM DAILY LIFE
Switch to steel or glass water bottles, lunchboxes, and kitchenware.
Never microwave food in plastic.
C. RECLAIM SUNLIGHT & MOVEMENT
Ensure at least 30 minutes of outdoor play in morning or evening sun.
Encourage barefoot walking, cycling, and physical games.
D. REDUCE SCREEN TIME, INCREASE TOUCH TIME
Replace mobile time with meaningful touch, talk, stories, and art.
Sleep before 9:30 PM to sync hormones.
E. CREATE A SAFE, EMOTIONALLY HEALTHY ENVIRONMENT
Do not pressure girls to be perfect.
Avoid comparing their body or achievements.
Let them be children — not pre-women.
F. CHOOSE NATURAL DAIRY OR PLANT OPTIONS
Source milk from hormone-free, local farms.
Or transition to plant-based alternatives like ragi porridge, coconut milk.
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5. CONCLUSION
Early puberty is a symptom of deeper lifestyle misalignments. It is not normal. It is not harmless. But it is reversible. Through natural food, emotional presence, sun, movement, and protection from modern toxins — we can slow down this forced acceleration. Let girls grow as girls. Not as hurried adults.
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HEALING DIALOGUE: THE WARDEN AND EARLY PUBERTY IN GIRLS
Characters:
Madhukar, the healer
Mrs. Leela, 53, hostel warden of a reputed girls’ residential school
Supporting mentions: teenage girls under her care
Setting: A quiet afternoon under the banyan tree at Madhukar’s forest dwelling. Leela has come after years of mental fatigue and quiet panic.
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Leela: I’ve managed girls for over 25 years, Madhukar. But what’s happening now is different. Girls are getting their periods in Class 3. Breasts by age 8. Mood swings at 9. They cry alone. Fight more. Get depressed.
Madhukar: You mean the girls are becoming women too early?
Leela: Yes. It’s unnatural. Their bodies grow fast but their minds stay unprepared. And I’m helpless. Doctors say “hormones.” But that’s not an answer.
Madhukar (nodding slowly): It’s not an answer. It’s a deflection. What they call ‘hormonal’ is the body’s cry under pressure.
Leela: What pressure? They live in a safe campus. They get food, routine, education.
Madhukar: Let’s unpack that. What food?
Leela: Canteen food. Mostly rice, curry, sweets twice a week. Lots of milk. Bread and jam in mornings. Biscuits for snacks. Some get flavoured milk packets and protein drinks from home.
Madhukar: That’s not food. That’s processed estrogen. Fake calories. Dairy injected with growth hormones. Sugars that spike insulin. Every cell of theirs is overfed and undernourished.
Leela (quietly): They also drink water from plastic dispensers and use plastic bottles. And everything is stored in Tupperware.
Madhukar: Plastics are endocrine mimics. They trick the body into starting womanhood before it’s time.
Leela: Some parents even send “beauty soaps,” “sanitary wipes,” and “energy gummies.” As if hygiene and alertness are cosmetic.
Madhukar: And still the girls bleed early, break early, burn early. Because the body knows what the brain refuses: this is overload.
Leela: I thought keeping them clean, fed, scheduled — that was my job.
Madhukar: That’s a job. But your role is different. Your role is to protect their time. Not just bodies. But their right to not grow up too fast.
Leela: But how? I can’t control what families send. Or change their pasts. Some girls come from broken homes. Some never had a hug. They carry pain in silence.
Madhukar: That pain speaks through their body. Emotional stress, father absence, shame — these too invite early puberty. The body matures early when the heart feels unsafe. It’s nature’s survival response.
Leela (tearful): So what do I do? I’m just one woman. 120 girls. And now 6-year-olds with bras.
Madhukar: You return to slowness. To nourishment. To nature. One girl at a time.
Leela: Tell me how.
Madhukar:
Replace biscuits with groundnuts and fruits.
Remove milk if you can’t source it hormone-free.
Stop plastic water bottles. Use steel.
Let them touch soil. Plant saplings.
Teach them to squat, walk barefoot, lie under the sun.
Lighten their schedule. Give unstructured evenings.
Introduce songs, stories, laughter. Real connections.
Speak openly about periods without shame.
Let them rest during their cycle.
Leela: But will that slow down their body’s panic?
Madhukar: Yes. Nature reverses speed when it feels safe. Let them be girls. Not chemical women.
Leela (after a long pause): You know, yesterday a girl cried in her pillow and said, “Ma’am, I don’t want to be a woman yet.” And I had no words.
Madhukar (softly): Then today you speak for her. Through every plate, every permission, every pause.
Leela (rising slowly): I don’t want to manage girls anymore, Madhukar. I want to mother them.
Madhukar: And that, Leela, is how puberty returns to its right time — through a mother’s courage to slow the world down.
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[Scene ends with Leela walking back alone, slowly, barefoot. A quiet determination in her step.]