Loan Is A Disease & Cure Is Simple
- Madhukar Dama
- 15 hours ago
- 7 min read

๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฅ๐จ๐ ๐ฎ๐:
Human beings once worked with their hands, exchanged with their hearts, and lived within their means. Then came a trap: the idea of borrowing against the future. A loan. What began as a tool of temporary relief has turned into one of the deadliest diseases of modern civilizationโquiet, invisible, and more contagious than any virus.
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๐. ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ง๐๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐๐๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ฌ: ๐๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ ๐๐จ๐๐ง
Like a disease, a loan starts in the mind long before it enters the body of your life.
๐๐ฒ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ญ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ ๐๐๐ซ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ข๐ง๐๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง:
Dissatisfaction with what one has.
Comparison with neighbors, relatives, and society.
An artificial dream planted by advertisementsโโyou can have it now.โ
The illusion of security: โIf I take a loan, my problems will be solved.โ
This is the incubation period. The virus of debt whispers: โWhy wait? Why work harder? Why not take it now?โ
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๐. ๐๐ก๐ ๐ ๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐๐จ๐ฌ๐: ๐๐ข๐ ๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐๐ง ๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ฌ
When a person takes the first loan, it feels like reliefโjust as a painkiller gives temporary comfort. But like morphine, it does not cure; it only numbs.
๐๐ก๐ ๐ก๐ข๐ ๐ก: A car, a house, a degree abroad, a flashy wedding, an instant lifestyle upgrade.
๐๐ก๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ: The moment you sign, your future hours, your sweat, your health, your peace are mortgaged.
The disease now enters the bloodstream. The borrower becomes a patient.
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๐. ๐๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐ข๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ง๐๐ฌ๐ฌ: ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐๐จ๐๐ง
Once inside, the disease spreads. Installments, interests, late feesโeach is like a symptom that weakens you slowly.
๐๐๐ง๐ญ๐๐ฅ ๐๐ฒ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ญ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฌ: Stress, anxiety, sleepless nights, mood swings.
๐๐ก๐ฒ๐ฌ๐ข๐๐๐ฅ ๐๐ฒ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ญ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฌ: Hypertension, diabetes triggered by stress, premature aging.
๐๐จ๐๐ข๐๐ฅ ๐๐ฒ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ญ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฌ: Family quarrels, hiding from relatives, endless fights about money.
๐๐ฉ๐ข๐ซ๐ข๐ญ๐ฎ๐๐ฅ ๐๐ฒ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ญ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฌ: Loss of inner freedom, constant fear of tomorrow, inability to live in the present.
Every EMI is a pill you must swallow monthly, whether you are sick, unemployed, or in grief.
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๐. ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง: ๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ญ๐ข๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ ๐๐จ๐๐ง๐ฌ
Like cancer spreading to different organs, debt rarely stays at one loan.
Credit card debt mutates into a personal loan.
Home loan mutates into top-up loan.
Car loan mutates into refinancing.
Education loan mutates into lifelong wage slavery.
Soon, the patient forgets where the disease beganโevery financial vein carries traces of it.
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๐. ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐๐๐ข๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง: ๐๐จ๐๐ง ๐๐ฌ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ข๐ญ
Strangely, debt becomes addictive. Just as a smoker reaches for another cigarette, a borrower reaches for another loan.
โI handled one, I can handle another.โ
โEMIs are normal, everyone has them.โ
โIโll refinance and manage.โ
Society normalizes the disease. Banks market it as empowerment. Governments encourage it as โgrowth.โ But in reality, it is a massive colony of patients living on borrowed breath.
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๐. ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐ฉ๐ฌ๐: ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ฌ ๐จ๐ ๐๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ ๐ ๐ฅ๐
The worst part of this disease is its ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง. Unlike flu, it doesnโt go in a week. It stays for decades, often a lifetime.
People retire still paying their home loans.
Parents die before their education loans are cleared.
Families inherit debt like a genetic curse.
Dreams of freedom are postponed endlessly: โOnce I finish my loan, Iโll live my life.โ
But life ends before the loan does.
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๐. ๐๐จ๐๐ง ๐๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐๐ข๐๐ฅ ๐๐ฉ๐ข๐๐๐ฆ๐ข๐
Loans are not just individual diseases; they are epidemics infecting entire societies:
Countries thrive on debt, selling generations to international banks.
Middle class families measure status by the size of their loans, not savings.
Youngsters are born into houses already mortgaged.
Marriages collapse under the strain of EMIs.
It is a disease passed down like polluted airโnormalised, invisible, deadly.
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๐. ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐: ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐๐ญ-๐ ๐ซ๐๐
Like every disease, loan too has a cureโbut it requires discipline, awareness, and courage.
๐๐ซ๐๐ฏ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง: Refuse to be infected. Live within your means. Stop comparison. Stop buying status.
๐๐๐ญ๐จ๐ฑ: Sell what is unnecessary, simplify life, pay off aggressively.
๐๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ: Build savings, grow food, create self-reliance, rely on community support, not banks.
๐๐ข๐๐๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฒ๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ง๐ ๐: Like diet and exercise prevent diabetes, simplicity and contentment prevent debt.
True wealth is not in what you buy with a loan, but in the freedom to sleep peacefully without owing a single rupee.
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๐๐ฉ๐ข๐ฅ๐จ๐ ๐ฎ๐:
Loan is not moneyโit is a disease of the soul. It begins with a thought, spreads through desire, infects with false promises, and keeps its patient in lifelong slavery. To be debt-free is not just financial freedomโit is spiritual liberation.
๐๐๐ฃ๐๐๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐๐๐ฌ๐. ๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐๐ง. ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ข๐ฆ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐.
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๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ก๐ซ๐๐ ๐๐๐ง๐๐ซ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐๐ง
-- a dialogue with Madhukar
Early morning. An old car stops near Madhukarโs off-grid homestead. A family of three generations walks in. The air is cool. Birds are still calling. The smell of wood-fire tea lingers. They sit under a neem tree. Conversation begins slowly, as the sun begins to rise.
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๐. ๐๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐ฏ๐๐ฅ
Grandfather: Madhukar, we came to see you. I have heard you live without loans, without depending on banks.
Madhukar: Welcome. Sit. Drink some tea. Tell me, what brings you here?
Father: My father never took loans. He always said loan is a sin. I didnโt believe him. I thought everyone takes a loan, so I also did. For house, for land, for weddings. Now my whole life is running around EMIs.
Son: I have watched this. Grandfatherโs peace, fatherโs struggle. I have decided: no loan for me. That is why we came. We want to hear from you. Why is loan such a poison?
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๐. ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐๐จ๐ฆ
Madhukar: (turns to the grandfather) You never borrowed?
Grandfather: No. In our days, loan meant shame. If a man took loan, he could not sleep. Villagers would sayโโHe sold his tomorrow.โ So we lived within our means.
Madhukar: And was life hard?
Grandfather: Hard work, yes. But the heart was light. We slept under the stars without fear of collectors.
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๐. ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐๐๐ซ๐ง ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐๐๐ฌ๐
Madhukar: (to the father) You said you thought loan is normal?
Father: Everywhere. People said: โHow else will you build a house? How else will you send children to school? How else will you grow big?โ Banks encouraged us. Relatives praised us. Society saidโโLoan is progress.โ I believed them.
Madhukar: And what happened?
Father: Thirty years of running. Working not for myself, but for bank. Quarrels at home. Pressure in chest. Hair white before time. I built the house, but lost my peace.
Madhukar: This is why I call loan a disease. Like sugar in blood, it spreads quietly. Sweet at first, bitter for life.
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๐. ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐๐ฐ ๐๐๐ง๐๐ซ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐งโ๐ฌ ๐๐ฎ๐๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง
Son: Then why do banks and governments push it so much?
Madhukar: Because loan is a business. A scam made respectable. They sell you dreams you donโt need, then chain you with repayment. They say โloan is support.โ In truth, it is a trap. A man with loan cannot resist, cannot rebel. He becomes a worker not for his family, but for bankโs profit.
Son: So it is slavery?
Madhukar: Voluntary slavery. You enter the cage by signing your name.
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๐. ๐๐ก๐ฒ ๐๐จ๐๐ง ๐๐๐ฌ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐ ๐๐ข๐ง
Son: Grandfather said loan was a sin. Why?
Madhukar: Because it binds two souls unnaturally. The lender profits without work. The borrower suffers without freedom. Both are corrupted. Old wisdom knew: such relation spoils society. A man in loan loses honesty, loses courage, sometimes even loses compassion.
Grandfather: That is why we feared it. Not because of punishment in heaven, but because it destroys here on earth.
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๐. ๐๐จ ๐๐ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐จ๐๐ง?
Father: But Madhukar, sometimes we feel loan is needed. How else can we get things?
Madhukar: That is the lie. Lifeโs true needs are smallโfood, shelter, clothes, health. For those, we have hands, community, and earth. Loan enters when greed enters. Bigger house, bigger marriage, bigger show. Or when we do not trust time. If you are patient, save, and work steadily, everything comes.
Son: So we never really need loan?
Madhukar: Never. What you need is patience, simplicity, and trust in your own effort.
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๐. ๐๐ฆ๐๐ซ๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ฆ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฆ
Son: How do we live without loan in todayโs world?
Madhukar: Begin where you are. Look at every desire. AskโโDo I need this, or do I only want it to show others?โ If you cut the show, 80% of expenses vanish.
Live in a house that fits your family, not your pride.
Grow what food you can, buy the rest simply.
Celebrate marriages with blessing, not with borrowed money.
Teach children contentment more than ambition.
Minimalism is not about suffering. It is about freeing space for real joy.
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๐. ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ก๐ซ๐๐ ๐๐๐ง๐๐ซ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ญ
Grandfather: I feel peace hearing this. It reminds me of our younger days.
Father: (quietly) I feel regret. But also relief. If my son walks this path, maybe my struggle is not wasted.
Son: (firmly) I will not enter the cage. I will live within my means, wherever I am.
Madhukar: Good. Remember: freedom is not bought by loan. It is kept by refusing it.
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๐. ๐๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐
The family rises. The sun has now touched the neem leaves. A rooster crows from the next field.
Madhukar: (smiling) Loan is the only disease you cure by not catching it. Stay simple. Stay free.
The three generations walk back slowly to their car, each carrying a different weightโmemory, regret, and resolve.
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๐๐จ๐๐ง ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐๐๐ฌ๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐ข๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐
the old man
with cracked feet
and eyes soft as dry wells
used to say:
live small, live free,
donโt let another man
hold the rope around your neck.
he had no college,
no papers to frame,
but he slept straight-backed,
like a king
under a tin roof
without a single bill chasing him.
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the middle one,
my fatherโs time,
believed the banks,
believed the neighbors,
believed the lie that
happiness comes with a signature.
he built walls too wide,
celebrations too loud,
borrowed tomorrow
and paid with his nerves today.
i saw him counting notes
like a man counting his own days.
he carried a house on his back,
a car in his lungs,
an education loan in his veinsโ
and none of it gave him breath.
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and meโ
i stand between
the silence of my grandfather
and the sighs of my father.
i have learned:
a loan is not money,
it is a shadow
that eats your morning light.
they sell it as hope
but it is a leash.
they name it progress
but it is prison.
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the cure?
it is not complex medicine,
not some holy secret.
the cure is this:
take only what you can carry.
live with less,
love with more.
grow food,
fix things,
wait longer,
sleep deeper.
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one day
i will tell my children
what the old man told me
without words:
that freedom
is not in having much
but in owing nothing.
and when they ask
about loan,
i will tell them:
๐ฅ๐จ๐๐ง ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐๐๐ฌ๐,
๐๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐.
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