IF YOU HAVE NOT GONE TO JAIL, YOU DON'T KNOW 30% OF LIFE
- Madhukar Dama
- May 3
- 2 min read

INTRODUCTION
You’ve gone to school.
You’ve gone to work.
You’ve gone on vacation.
But have you ever gone to jail?
No?
Then you’ve missed one-third of what it means to be human.
Because jail is not just a building.
Jail is a mirror.
It’s where society puts everything it cannot digest:
Truth, rebellion, poverty, despair, mistakes, and misunderstood minds.
And until you’ve touched that darkness,
you haven’t truly seen the machinery that governs your light.
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PART 1: JAIL IS WHERE SYSTEMS REMOVE THE INCONVENIENT
1. The Truth-Tellers
Many jailed people weren’t criminals.
They were inconvenient.
Activists, poets, saints, thinkers — who said what society didn’t want to hear.
In India: Bhagat Singh, Ambedkar’s followers, tribal land protectors.
In the world: Mandela, Socrates, Tolstoy’s rebels.
2. The Poor Who Can't Pay for Freedom
Rich man drinks and drives: gets a lawyer.
Poor man steals food: gets five years.
Jail is not for crime. It’s for the voiceless.
3. The Mentally Ill and Forgotten
Many in jail need help, not punishment.
Schizophrenics locked up for shouting on the street.
Orphans jailed for loitering.
Jail becomes a storage room for social failure.
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PART 2: WHAT JAIL TEACHES YOU THAT SOCIETY HIDES
1. TIME
In jail, there are no deadlines. Only silence.
You meet yourself for the first time.
No phone. No show. Just breath.
Most outside have never met themselves.
2. POWER
In jail, the rules are clear: you are powerless.
And that clarity is honest.
Outside, power is dressed in false freedom.
Inside, at least you know your cage.
3. RESPECT
Jail teaches real respect.
Not from status, but from presence.
A man who shares his roti in jail is nobler than a CEO who exploits a team.
4. COMPASSION
The man who stole slippers and the man who killed in rage —
both cry for their mother at night.
Jail reminds you: we are not our worst act.
We are more than our mistake.
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PART 3: IF YOU’VE NEVER BEEN TO JAIL…
1. You Don’t Understand SYSTEMIC VIOLENCE
You think rules are fair because they work for you.
But you haven’t seen how the law treats those without surname, English, or influence.
2. You Don’t Understand FREEDOM
You believe you’re free because your door opens.
But fear, guilt, roles, and society’s pressure cage you too.
Jail just makes the bars visible.
3. You Don’t Understand TRUTH
Truth is not polite.
Truth often gets punished.
Truth is often jailed.
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PART 4: WHAT JAIL CAN DO TO YOU
1. Break You
Many never return the same.
Isolation. Torture. Injustice.
Jail can destroy the weak.
2. Transform You
Jail broke Gandhi. Then it made him.
Jail silenced prisoners. Then it made poets of them.
Jail strips you down — but sometimes that’s the only way to be rebuilt.
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CONCLUSION
You think jail is the end.
But for many, it is the beginning.
A dark, brutal, honest place.
Where masks fall.
Where lies stop.
Where freedom is reborn in the imagination.
If you’ve never seen the inside of a jail,
don’t be proud.
Be curious.
Because 30% of life —
the raw, real, naked human experience —
happens in places no one wants to visit.
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