CLEAN MOTHERS, DIRTY CONSEQUENCES — How the War on Soil Killed Immunity
- Madhukar Dama
- May 6
- 7 min read

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INTRODUCTION: SHE THREW AWAY THE EARTH AND CALLED IT LOVE
In trying to protect her child, she imprisoned him.
In trying to keep him safe, she kept him sick.
In trying to raise a clean child, she raised a weak one.
This is the modern mother — smart, educated, well-dressed, deeply insecure, and proudly paranoid.
She has declared war on the very thing that made life possible: soil.
And in doing so, she has broken the spine of her child’s immunity.
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SECTION 1: SOIL IS IMMUNITY — THE FORGOTTEN TRUTH
Before science, before syrups, before supplements — there was soil.
Children who played in soil had stronger gut health, more balanced immunity, and fewer allergies.
Why? Because soil is the original teacher of the immune system.
It contains billions of microorganisms that “train” our body to differentiate friend from foe.
In Indian villages, children:
Ate fallen fruit without wiping it.
Rolled in cow dung and laughed.
Slept on mud floors with no pillow.
Climbed trees and ate with their hands.
They weren’t sick. They were strong.
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SECTION 2: THE CLEANLINESS OBSESSION — A NEW RELIGION
Enter the modern mother.
Armed with Dettol, Lysol, surface sanitizers, gloves, wipes, and fear.
Her home smells like a clinic.
Her child smells like artificial shampoo.
But inside that child’s body, there is no immune training, only confusion.
Every surface is sprayed before touched.
Every toy is sterilized before used.
Every hand is scrubbed until its instinct disappears.
She has replaced exposure with elimination.
And she’s proud of it.
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SECTION 3: THE PRISON OF PERFECT MOTHERHOOD
Today’s mother is not parenting. She is performing.
Instagram has told her that a “good mother” has a clean child with expensive clothes, air-conditioned rooms, and zero contact with dust.
She:
Uploads filtered photos of her baby eating in sanitized spoons.
Boasts that her child has “never stepped in mud.”
Feeds her child packaged probiotic yogurt to compensate for never touching a garden.
She doesn’t know this is child abuse in disguise.
Controlled. Overprotected. Disconnected.
But socially approved.
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SECTION 4: SYMPTOMS OF THE DAMAGE
Let’s look at the result of this new style of mothering:
Children with asthma at age 4
Children with allergies to dust, milk, nuts, pollen
Children who fall sick every month
Children addicted to screens but afraid of sunlight
Children with no emotional grounding, no tactile confidence, no nervous resilience
She says, “I did everything right. Why is my child always unwell?”
Answer: Because you removed everything real.
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SECTION 5: THE INDUSTRY OF FEAR AND CURE
This fear of dirt is now a business model:
Immunity boosters.
Vitamin D drops.
Probiotic powders.
Air purifiers.
Baby-safe floor cleaners.
Sterile play areas with rubber flooring.
Doctors say, “Build immunity!”
Mothers say, “Buy immunity!”
But no one says,
“Let your child sit naked in mud for 2 hours and you won’t need any of this.”
Because that’s not good for business.
Dirty doesn’t sell.
Fear does.
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SECTION 6: THE CHILD WHO NEVER KNEW THE EARTH
We are raising a generation of children who:
Have never touched soil with their hands
Have never walked barefoot on grass
Have never played in rain without being scolded
Have never helped plant a seed or clean cow dung
Instead, they:
Know how to use a tablet but not a trowel
Know cartoon pigs but not real worms
Know elevator buttons but not the feel of tree bark
These children are emotionally fragile, physically weak, and spiritually disconnected.
They are the children of the war on soil.
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SECTION 7: WHO SHOULD BE ASHAMED?
Should the child be ashamed for being sick?
No.
Should the soil be ashamed for being blamed?
No.
It is the mother who should be ashamed.
The one who thinks cleanliness means health.
The one who panics at the sight of mud but feeds cornflakes with pride.
The one who wraps her child in socks and gloves at age 2.
The one who replaced the garden with a tablet, the field with a YouTube video, and the smell of earth with the smell of bleach.
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SECTION 8: RECLAIMING THE ROOTS
It is not too late.
Let your child:
Get dirty.
Fall down.
Touch worms.
Eat mangoes fallen on the ground.
Walk barefoot.
Garden without gloves.
Sit on cow dung floors.
Build with mud.
Sleep without AC.
Grow with soil — not in spite of it.
Stop parenting with paranoia.
Start parenting with trust.
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CONCLUSION: DIRT DIDN’T MAKE US SICK. FEAR DID.
We came from the earth.
And only by returning to it can we become whole again.
The cleanest children today are the sickest.
Because no lab-made product can replace a fistful of soil.
No immunity syrup can replace a barefoot childhood.
So, dear mother —
If you really love your child,
let them touch the earth again.
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“LET HIM TOUCH THE EARTH”
A Healing Dialogue Between a Young Couple and the Hermit Madhukar
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Characters
Ananya – A 32-year-old modern mother, educated, careful, always searching for "the best" for her son.
Raghav – Her 35-year-old husband, an IT professional, proud of their ‘hygienic’ lifestyle.
Veer – Their 4-year-old son, constantly sick.
Madhukar – A barefoot hermit living in a mud hut, healer of fears, destroyer of delusions.
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Scene
A shaded veranda of Madhukar’s mud house, overlooking a vegetable patch. Birds chirp. Raghav and Ananya arrive, Veer clinging silently to a tablet.
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Madhukar (smiling gently):
“Welcome. What brings you to this dirty old hut?”
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Ananya (hesitantly):
“We heard you help children with immunity issues. Our son... he’s always sick. Cough, cold, fever. It never ends.”
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Raghav:
“We’ve tried everything. Paediatricians, supplements, diet changes. Nothing works.”
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Madhukar:
“Tell me — what does your son touch every day?”
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Ananya:
“Um… his toys, books, tablet. We sanitize everything.”
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Madhukar (leans forward):
“Does he ever touch soil?”
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Ananya (shocked):
“Soil? No! That’s unhygienic. We don’t even allow outdoor play in the park without shoes.”
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Madhukar (softly, firmly):
“That’s the problem.
Your child is not sick from exposure.
He’s sick from lack of it.”
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Raghav:
“But we thought hygiene builds health…”
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Madhukar:
“No. Hygiene builds dependency.
Exposure builds resilience.
Your child has met screens, plastics, and concrete —
but he has never met bacteria, mud, worms, or cow dung.
You kept him clean — and destroyed his education.”
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Ananya (confused and defensive):
“But bacteria cause infections!”
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Madhukar:
“Only in sterile bodies.
The immune system is a warrior.
It must train in the mud.
Soil is not dirt.
It is the teacher your son never met.”
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Veer (tugging at his mother):
“Mamma, can I play in the mud here?”
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Ananya (shocked):
“No, baby, you’ll get sick!”
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Madhukar (to Ananya):
“You see? He wants to go where life began.
But you’ve taught him fear, not freedom.
How will his body learn if it never meets its classroom?”
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Raghav (thoughtful):
“When we were kids, we played in fields. We didn’t fall sick that often…”
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Madhukar:
“Exactly.
You’ve given your child every brand but stolen nature.
And now you’re buying cures for symptoms you created.”
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Ananya (eyes filling with tears):
“I thought I was doing the right thing…
I just didn’t want him to suffer.”
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Madhukar (gently):
“And in your effort to protect him from imagined suffering,
you brought real suffering.
Let him fall. Let him eat with hands. Let him get dirty.
Let him meet real life.
That’s the only immunity there is.”
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Raghav:
“So... what should we change?”
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Madhukar:
1. Throw away the sanitizer.
2. Let him walk barefoot on the soil.
3. Let him garden, roll in mud, and feed cows.
4. Let him eat with dirty hands sometimes.
5. Let him be wild, not wrapped.
The earth is not your enemy.
It is your forgotten mother.
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Ananya (softly, to Veer):
“Do you want to plant something with Madhukar uncle?”
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Veer (eyes wide):
“Can I plant a mango tree?”
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Madhukar (smiling):
“Only if you promise to get your hands very dirty.”
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Raghav:
“I feel ashamed now. All these years, we were buying everything… except the one thing that was free — soil.”
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Madhukar:
“Don’t feel ashamed. Feel awake.
It’s not too late.
But remember —
If you raise a child afraid of the earth,
you raise a child afraid of life itself.”
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[They step into the backyard. Veer throws off his shoes. The earth receives him.]
LET HIM TOUCH THE EARTH, YOU DAMNED FOOL
you covered his hands
with sanitizer
and called it safety.
you wrapped his feet
in imported shoes
and called it parenting.
you vacuumed the last worm
from your balcony plant
and called it hygiene.
and now
you sit by his hospital bed
googling immunity syrups
like a junkie looking for her next hit of guilt-free love.
he sneezes,
you panic.
he coughs,
you cancel school.
he touches dirt,
you scream like it’s acid.
you've sterilized him out of childhood.
you turned a mud-born wild animal
into a walking tissue box
with a food allergy to life.
you called cow dung “unclean”
but feed him chips made in toilet-grade factories.
you banned barefoot walking
but let him sleep under air-conditioned poison.
you say, “don’t touch that, it’s dirty,”
to the tree, the frog, the soil, the rain,
but never to the screen.
never to the plastic.
never to yourself.
you proudly say:
“my child never touched soil.”
congratulations.
you’ve raised a sick museum piece.
a soft, sterile, soul-snatched sponge
who can spell “chlorophyll”
but has never climbed a tree.
you idiot.
don’t you know
immunity doesn’t come in bottles
or brand endorsements?
it comes from cow shit under toenails.
from mud pies eaten mid-play.
from insect bites that itch and go away.
from sweat, rain, hunger, barefoot bruises.
the earth builds the body.
the soil trains the blood.
the filth is holy.
but you replaced it all with fear,
plastic, guilt, glass, and Google.
you’re not modern.
you’re mutilated.
your child doesn’t need
another vitamin.
he needs a fistful of mud
and a mother who shuts up
and lets him live.
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