BABY'S FIRST POISON
- Madhukar Dama
- Jun 7
- 6 min read
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INTRODUCTION: A SWEET TRAP IN EARLY LIFE
Feeding sugar to a baby seems harmless. It comes in birthday cakes, biscuits, flavored milk, baby food jars, and even "health" drinks. But this simple act can cause deep and long-lasting harm. Sugar given in the early months of life does not just give calories. It programs the brain, gut, immune system, and even future personality.
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1. THE BRAIN GETS TRAINED TO CRAVE
Babies form taste preferences early. Giving sugar trains the brain to expect sweetness:
Tongue becomes addicted to sweet taste.
Brain links sugar with comfort, calm, and happiness.
Natural foods like vegetables and dals start tasting boring.
The child begins demanding sugar for feeling okay.
This is not about habit. It is brain wiring. Once the craving pathway is formed, it becomes lifelong.
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2. GUT DAMAGE BEGINS EARLY
A baby’s gut is soft, new, and still developing. Sugar feeds harmful bacteria and fungi (like candida). This causes:
Gas, colic, bloating
Constipation or loose motions
Weak digestion
Nutrient loss
This gut imbalance (called dysbiosis) continues into adulthood. It later causes:
Acidity
Eczema
Autoimmune problems
Constant hunger or fatigue
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3. IMMUNITY STAYS WEAK
Sugar weakens the immune system. Even a few grams can reduce white blood cell strength. Regular sugar makes the child:
Fall sick often
Need frequent antibiotics
Catch infections easily
Recover slowly
This becomes a weak immune foundation for life.
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4. METABOLIC DAMAGE STARTS INVISIBLY
Sugar converts to fat in the liver. Babies do not have enough movement to burn it. This leads to:
Fatty liver (NAFLD)
High insulin
Early obesity
Poor fat burning
Even if the baby looks slim, internal damage happens. Later, it shows up as:
PCOD in girls
Belly fat
Type 2 diabetes
Fatigue
High cholesterol
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5. HORMONES GET CONFUSED
Sugar interferes with body hormones:
Increases cortisol (stress hormone)
Disrupts melatonin (sleep hormone)
Confuses ghrelin and leptin (hunger signals)
Results:
Poor sleep
Mood swings
Constant snacking
Emotional reactivity
Early puberty in girls
Testosterone imbalance in boys
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6. COGNITIVE AND BRAIN DEVELOPMENT SUFFERS
Sugar lowers the intake of iron, B12, choline, and omega-3 — all needed for brain growth. It leads to:
Poor memory
Delayed speech
Late walking
Attention problems
ADHD-like behaviour
Later in school, this shows up as:
Low focus
Poor learning
Emotional breakdowns
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7. EYE AND VISION ISSUES
Sugar damages small blood vessels in the eyes:
Promotes early myopia (short sight)
Increases dry eye symptoms
Triggers fatigue in reading
Raises risk of future diabetic eye damage
Children exposed to early sugar often struggle with reading and long hours of screen work.
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8. ORAL HEALTH AND BREATHING
Before teeth erupt, sugar changes mouth bacteria. This leads to:
Early cavities
Weak gums
Delayed teething
Mouth breathing (from enlarged tonsils)
Mouth breathing causes:
Speech delay
Snoring
Poor facial development
Poor oxygen supply to brain
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9. BEHAVIOUR AND EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY
When sugar is given to stop crying, boredom, or illness, the child learns:
Sugar = Comfort
Sweet = Safe
Later this becomes:
Emotional eating
Anger when denied sweets
Depression or loneliness
Attention seeking
Sugar-fed toddlers often cannot sit still or focus. As adults, they may rely on sugar, caffeine, and junk food for mood control.
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10. HORMONE AXIS DAMAGE (HPA AND THYROID)
Sugar stresses the hypothalamus-pituitary-adrenal (HPA) axis. It disrupts thyroid function, growth hormone, and even reproductive balance. This leads to:
Early height stagnation
Weight gain without eating much
Delayed or rushed puberty
Cold intolerance
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11. DEVELOPMENTAL DELAYS
Many sugar-fed babies experience:
Late crawling or walking
Weak reflexes
Poor hand-eye coordination
Overreaction to sound, light, or touch
This is due to gut-brain inflammation and mineral loss caused by sugar.
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12. SOCIAL CONDITIONING AND INDUSTRY DEPENDENCY
The food industry trains the child to become a lifetime customer:
Biscuits, chocolate, candy, health drinks, cakes
Heavy marketing to mothers
Low-cost products for poor families
The child loses taste for:
Traditional snacks
Bitter and sour foods
Local home food
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13. SLEEP DISTURBANCES
Sugar raises night-time cortisol. This disturbs melatonin. Babies fed sugar often:
Wake up more
Have disturbed dreams
Become restless at night
Later, they develop lifelong poor sleep patterns.
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14. GENDER-SPECIFIC ISSUES
Girls:
Sugar raises estrogen-like chemicals
Early breast development
Menstrual problems by age 10–12
Boys:
Lower testosterone
Weaker muscle growth
Late voice change
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WHAT PARENTS SHOULD DO
No added sugars before age 2 (including jaggery, honey, fruit juice)
Avoid feeding sugar during illness or crying
Give steamed fruits, coconut, ragi porridge
Let tastebuds grow with bitter, sour, and bland foods
Recondition if already addicted: 3–4 weeks of no sugar can reset the tongue
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EPILOGUE: THE BODY NEVER FORGETS
The baby won’t remember that sugary biscuit. But the gut remembers. The immune system remembers. The brain remembers. And the damage continues for decades.
Prevention is simple. Healing later is hard. Sugar in infancy is not a treat. It is a trap. Say no early. Say no clearly. Say no with love.
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REFERENCES
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“HE TOOK HIS FIRST BISCUIT”
(A Bukowski-styled slow burn on sugar-fed babies)
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he took his first biscuit
at eight months.
sugar crust flaking off the corners
of a toothless grin.
everyone laughed.
they said it was cute.
they said he’ll sleep better now.
he did.
but not because he was full.
because his brain was drugged.
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by age one,
he’d taste nothing
unless it was sweet.
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the gut, that sacred tunnel of immunity,
began fermenting battles
between bacteria and fungi
before his feet even touched the ground.
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his diapers told no lies—
loose stools, gas,
sudden screams at 2 a.m.
pediatricians called it colic.
they gave syrups.
those syrups had sugar too.
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he didn’t cry for love anymore.
he cried for glucose.
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at three,
he knew his reward.
a lollipop for sitting still.
a biscuit for not crying.
an ice cream for behaving.
a childhood built on
sweet contracts.
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he went to preschool
with a gut inflamed
a mind racing
a body tired
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he wasn’t sick.
he was sugar-fed.
his sickness was cultural.
and profitable.
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his teeth turned brown
before his handwriting turned straight.
they drilled and filled him
and offered chocolate for being brave.
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his tantrums weren’t random.
his hormones were confused.
his cortisol was on a loop.
his melatonin was scared to rise.
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he woke up groggy
slept late
couldn’t sit through a story.
they said he might be hyperactive.
they suggested therapy.
no one asked about the white powder
hidden in every bottle,
jar, biscuit, tonic, cereal,
“health drink.”
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his bones grew weak
while his belly held fat
like a man four decades ahead of him.
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he turned ten.
he didn’t like vegetables.
he didn’t like silence.
he didn’t like waiting.
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he got tired by noon
couldn’t concentrate
felt low
and demanded a cold drink.
he didn’t know
he was addicted
to what they called love
and sold as celebration.
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they called it growing up.
they called it normal.
but the pancreas was aging
the liver was hardening
the taste buds were dying
the hunger was fake
and the sadness was real.
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his mother said
“he’s picky.”
his father said
“he’s lazy.”
his doctor said
“he’s borderline diabetic.”
his teacher said
“he lacks focus.”
no one said
“we broke him when he was eight months old.”
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he became a teenager.
he drank cola for energy.
he used food to feel okay.
he had dark circles
and swollen gums
and couldn’t sleep without a screen.
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he was never given a chance
to know what food actually was.
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he got acne,
then PCOD,
then insulin resistance,
then depression,
then shame.
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and all along
they said
“kids these days.”
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but it started with a biscuit.
not the big one.
the tiny one.
the first one.
fed with a smile,
given in innocence,
backed by ads,
bought by the kilo,
offered as peace.
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that’s how the body remembers.
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one rusk
at the wrong time.
and the child
starts building a future
full of wounds
they can never quite trace.
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your baby doesn’t want sugar.
you trained it.
your baby doesn’t need sweet.
you attached love to it.
your baby doesn’t know what it lost.
you called it “just a treat.”
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and now
you wonder
why the world is tired
before it even begins.
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