JOB IS LIFE?
- Madhukar Dama
- 21 hours ago
- 7 min read

INTRODUCTION: THE BIGGEST LIE EVER SOLD
Since childhood, we are told —
“Study hard. Get a good job. Then your life is set.”
But the truth is —
The job doesn’t set your life. It swallows it.
You don’t work the job.
The job works you.
You don’t live to earn.
You earn and forget to live.
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CHAPTER 1: THE MADNESS TO GET A JOB
Everywhere you look —
students, parents, politicians, relatives, neighbours —
Everyone is obsessed with one thing: “Get a job.”
It doesn’t matter what you love,
what your health needs,
what your heart says —
You must get a job. At any cost.
So what do people do?
Study things they don’t care about
Memorize useless theories
Join coaching factories
Write fake experiences on their resumes
Lie in interviews
Pay bribes
Use contacts
Pull strings
Steal positions
Sleep with bosses
Destroy others’ chances
They are not becoming better people.
They are just playing dirtier games to win a seat.
Because “job” is the only ticket to…
Respect
Marriage
House loan
Social status
Parental pride
Nobody asks —
“What are you really good at?”
They only ask —
“What job do you have?”
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CHAPTER 2: THE POLITICS OF GETTING IN
Let’s say you do get a job.
What next?
Now comes the real game.
A game that no college prepares you for.
OFFICE POLITICS.
To survive, you must:
Act sweet to seniors
Stay quiet when something wrong happens
Take credit when it’s not yours
Blame others for your mistakes
Laugh at the boss’s bad jokes
Lie about your achievements
Stay back late for no reason
Work on holidays to look “loyal”
Say “yes sir” even when your body says “no”
You slowly start to die from the inside.
But outside, you get your “Best Employee” award.
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CHAPTER 3: THE PROMOTION HUNGER
You got a job.
You played the game.
Now what?
You want a promotion.
Because more salary = more respect = more fake happiness.
Now the real torture begins.
To get promoted:
You push your juniors down
You gossip and manipulate
You hide knowledge
You flatter the right people
You show off fake work
You attend fake training
You burn your family time
You sacrifice your mental peace
You say “yes” when you want to scream “no”
You stop being human
You become a machine
And when the promotion comes —
you smile, post on LinkedIn, take your family for dinner,
and forget what you lost to get here.
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CHAPTER 4: THE ADDICTION TO SALARY
Now you’re earning.
Good money.
But are you free? No.
You’ve upgraded everything —
house, car, clothes, school, gadgets, loans.
Your needs are now chained to your salary.
Even if you hate your job,
you cannot leave.
Because your lifestyle depends on it.
You are not working for money.
You are working to keep your EMIs alive.
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CHAPTER 5: WHAT YOU LOST WITHOUT NOTICING
Look at yourself honestly:
You sleep less
You eat fast
You skip exercise
You ignore your children
You snap at your spouse
You don’t meet friends
You always check your mail
You talk only about work
You have no energy for hobbies
You have no time to reflect
You feel tired, angry, and numb
You haven’t lived in years.
You’ve only worked.
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CHAPTER 6: RETIREMENT — TOO LATE TO LIVE
After 35–40 years of this circus,
you retire.
Your children are grown up.
Your health is broken.
Your dreams are forgotten.
Your body is tired.
You have money.
But no excitement.
Now you ask:
“What should I do with my time?”
But there’s no answer.
Because your job was your life.
And now there’s nothing left.
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CHAPTER 7: THE DEATH OF NATURAL LIFE
Jobs didn’t just kill your freedom.
They killed nature itself.
You don’t grow your own food.
You don’t repair your own house.
You don’t cook.
You don’t create.
You don’t share with community.
Everything is outsourced.
You’ve forgotten how to live.
But you remember your passwords.
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CHAPTER 8: SO WHAT CAN WE DO NOW?
We’re not saying don’t work.
We’re saying — don’t forget to live.
Try this:
Do less, but love it
Work part-time if you can
Live below your means
Grow your own food
Cook at home
Spend more time with your children
Learn something fun
Serve someone without money
Create art, write, build, move
Sleep when sleepy
Say no when it’s wrong
Unplug from your phone
Let your job support your life —
not replace it.
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PART 2: HEALING DIALOGUE
TITLE: “I HAVE A JOB… BUT I DON’T HAVE A LIFE”
SETTING:
Under the neem tree beside Madhukar’s mud house in rural Karnataka.
Three visitors arrive, each from a different stage of the “job trap.”
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CHARACTERS:
Madhukar – The Hermit, soft-spoken but brutally honest.
Kiran (28) – A job-seeker, desperate and depressed after multiple failures.
Vaishali (42) – A middle manager, high salary but burnt out and bitter.
Ramesh (61) – A recently retired bank officer, feeling empty and forgotten.
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[Scene opens with the three sitting quietly before Madhukar. Wind rustles dry leaves.]
Madhukar (pouring water into clay cups):
Drink. You’ve all come heavy.
Kiran (with trembling hands):
I’ve done everything, sir.
B.Tech. M.Tech. GATE. UPSC. Coding. Even spiritual courses.
But no job. No respect.
I feel like a ghost.
Vaishali (laughs bitterly):
And I feel like a machine.
I got the job. Big company.
Now I wake up with chest pain.
Every day I say “yes” to what feels like dying.
My son doesn’t talk to me.
My husband only sees my back.
I manage 80 people at work… but I can’t manage my own breath.
Ramesh (smiles emptily):
I retired 6 months ago.
I was an honest officer for 34 years.
Now I water plants and stare at walls.
Nobody calls me.
My wife says I look like a stranger in the house.
My life was my job.
And now… what am I?
Madhukar (quietly):
Your story is the same story.
The job didn’t fail you.
You made it your identity.
Kiran:
Then what am I without a job?
Madhukar:
A human.
Like the bird who sings without a position.
Like the buffalo who ploughs without a degree.
Like your grandmother who raised three generations without a resume.
Vaishali (tears up):
But everything… even self-worth… is connected to my job now.
Madhukar:
Because you were trained that way.
From day one, they told you —
“Be something.”
Not “Be yourself.”
Ramesh:
But society respects only working people.
Madhukar:
Society respects what it can use.
Not who you truly are.
Kiran:
But without a job, people insult me.
Madhukar:
Then ask — Why do you need those people?
Why must your value be rented?
Vaishali:
But I have EMIs. Lifestyle. Education expenses. Parents’ medical bills.
Madhukar:
Exactly.
You work not for your needs.
But for your fears.
They told you:
Buy a flat
Take loans
Put kids in English school
Save for old age
But they never told you how to live without a leash.
Kiran:
Then what do I do now?
Madhukar (smiling):
Do something you wouldn’t post on LinkedIn.
Grow food. Teach a child for free.
Repair shoes. Stitch clothes. Raise goats.
Write poetry. Fix a leaking tap.
Make yourself useful again — not just employable.
Vaishali (laughing through tears):
Useful, not employable.
That hit hard.
Ramesh:
And what about us old people?
Madhukar:
Become the elders this world has lost.
Not advisors of investments…
but guardians of wisdom.
Show your grandchildren how to live before they pick a job.
Kiran (softly):
I wanted a job so I can live.
But now…
Maybe I need to live before I get a job.
Madhukar:
Yes.
The job should serve your life.
Not steal it.
[Scene fades. They sit in silence, watching the sunset — not rushing, not running. Just being.]
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“THE JOB ATE ME”
(A brutal, dark, sarcastic funeral for the soul that once lived before the salary)
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they told me
go to school
tie your shoes
shut your mouth
and wait for the job.
I waited.
and waited.
and when it came,
it wore a tie,
and called me Sir
as it slipped a leash around my neck.
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I sold my laughter
for an appraisal.
I rented my health
for a bonus.
I auctioned my family
for a position.
and I took the money,
bought a bigger cage,
called it a house.
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Monday to Monday
I performed.
face on. mask on.
“Yes boss.” “No problem.”
“Happy to stretch late.”
Every nod was a funeral
for a piece of my spine.
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I didn’t eat.
I reported.
I didn’t sleep.
I replied.
I didn’t love.
I scheduled.
I didn’t raise my child.
I raised targets.
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I fought others
for what wasn’t mine.
smiled in meetings,
bled in silence.
laughed at jokes
that murdered my soul.
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Every year,
they gave me a certificate.
“Best Performer.”
I hung it on my wall,
like a death certificate
for my own self.
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Now I sit, retired,
with a fat pension
and an empty chest.
My wife doesn’t know me.
My kids don’t call.
My knees are weak.
My hands shake.
My mind is a hard drive
with no power.
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the job ate me
one bite at a time.
but I chewed myself too
thinking it was success.
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nobody tells you
how expensive it is
to sell your life
and call it a career.
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if you see your job
trying to become your life,
run.
don’t look back.
don’t even say goodbye.
just run
and build something
nobody can fire you from.
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