Eat Breakfast Like a King, Lunch Like a Prince, Dinner Like a Pauper
- Madhukar Dama
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A Timeless Reflection on Rhythm, Restraint, and Returning to Self

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Prologue: The Rule Behind All Rules
In the forests where old sadhus walk without a watch, and in the clay homes where grandmothers still whisper prayers over rice, this law is known — not because it was taught, but because it was lived:
Rise with light. Work with strength. Sleep with peace.
That’s all it is.
And this rhythm — spoken simply as:
“Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince, dinner like a pauper”
— is not a dietary slogan. It is the breath of a wise life.
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I. The Morning King
(Give your richest offering to the rising sun)
In the beginning of anything — day, life, season — you are fresh, whole, uncluttered.
A baby. A dawn. A field after the rain.
That is when you must give yourself the best — not as indulgence, but as preparation.
The king is not greedy — he is responsible.
He eats fully — because the day is long.
He eats calmly — because there is no fire behind him.
He eats deliberately — because haste is for fools.
🌿 In the early hours, digestion is clean.
Work is ahead, not behind.
There is space for mistakes. There is time for correction.
So let this first meal — be it porridge, soaked millet, fruit with ghee, or rice gruel — be taken like a sacred act. Without guilt. Without rush. Without noise.
It is not about food. It is about how you enter the world.
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II. The Afternoon Prince
(Move through the world with strength, but not pride)
Now the sun is high. The fields are being tilled. The wheels are turning. The mind is sharp.
This is the time for effort — not imagination. Not fantasy. Just effort.
And so, the prince eats — not out of hunger alone, but to keep going.
🌿 A bit less than the king. A bit more than the pauper.
Enough to fuel. Not enough to forget yourself.
This middle meal — the mid-life meal — reminds you:
Be wise, not full.
Be alert, not hurried.
Share the food. Eat from one pot if you can.
And then return to your tasks.
This is not about calories. This is about knowing your rightful portion in the world.
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III. The Evening Pauper
(Step aside gently. The fire is fading.)
Now the day fades. Birds return. Light turns amber. Children begin to yawn.
And you — you must learn to step back.
But no. The undisciplined eat now as if it’s morning.
They fill the belly when the fire inside is low. They talk loud when the body wants silence. They argue when the world wants peace.
The pauper knows better.
🌿 He eats the humblest. The softest. The quietest.
Something boiled. Something fermented. Something warm.
Not because he is poor. But because he is wise.
He does not ask the body to fight anymore.
He prepares it for sleep, for emptiness, for death — not in sorrow, but in peace.
This is not about denial. This is about letting go.
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And this law echoes in every part of life.
1. In Childhood, Youth, and Old Age
Childhood is the king’s time — eat the best, learn the most, roam wildly.
Youth is the prince’s season — refine, build, conquer your desires.
Old age is for the wise pauper — light food, light talk, deep rest.
2. In Work
Start strong. Finish light.
Morning is for planting. Evening is for prayer.
Begin with action. End with surrender.
3. In Speech
Mornings: speak clearly.
Noons: speak purposefully.
Evenings: speak less, or not at all.
4. In Love
At first, love fully.
Then, love wisely.
Then, love quietly, without needing to be seen.
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But Why This Order?
Because all life obeys this shape:
Fullness → Balance → Emptiness
Fire → Warmth → Ash
Entrance → Dance → Exit
Anything that resists this order suffers.
Trees that never shed their leaves break in the wind.
People who cannot eat lightly cannot dream.
Societies that cannot simplify decay in their own excess.
And those who forget this truth — they lose the rhythm of the earth.
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Epilogue: To Walk Lightly
You can heal your digestion, your marriage, your village, even your spirit — just by restoring this law.
You don’t need supplements. Or devices. Or slogans. Or gurus.
You just need rhythm. And humility.
Eat breakfast like a king — honouring the beginning.
Lunch like a prince — aware of balance.
Dinner like a pauper — surrendered to sleep.
And soon, you’ll find:
You eat less, but absorb more.
You work less, but create more.
You speak less, but are heard more.
You need less, but are loved more.
This is not new wisdom.
This is old rhythm.
The kind that birds follow. And rivers. And real human beings.
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